Hi sweetheart.
Love your reaction and I can relate to your anxiety. I literally could not stay put during this episode and frequently got up from the couch and was pacing through my living room while watching - that much I was stressed out by the heist. But while you were complaining that the heist was not well planned I was amazed by what Joke planned in just a few hours. You seem to overlook that the whole episode takes place in just one day. Maybe 10 to 14 hours from hospital and/or getting the commands by Boss to the kiss. That was kind of impressive. My opinion.
Oh, and Jack really told Rose he is in love with someone else. I think you just overlooked the subs at this moment.
Nevertheless , yes: making Boss one of the four horseman was not the smartest thing from the boys. And with this Joke will probably blame himself again that his good intentions for making Jack happy actually hurt people. Hope Jack won’t be that angry - so I will replaying the confession scene and try not to think about next Monday.
Love you.
Stay healthy.